A boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is where two individuals agree to disobey Allah together, in order to burn in the Hell - Fire together... Is that what you call "love" Either get married and make it halaal or come out of that cursed relationship!
The Prophet S.A.W Said: When two people are (illegally) together alone. Then the third is Shaitaan. (Bukhari)
May Allah SWT give us Halaal keep us away from haram. Ameen